December 13, 2006
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Sad news...
My granddad died this morning.
And I'm all weepy over here, but it's okay. For years, he was a pretty hardened Buddhist, literally covering his ears when my sister would ask him about the Bible. But in the last month, while he's been hospitalized and in intensive care and then the scaled back hospital-not-quite-hospice care, he's asked to be sung Amazing Grace. He talked about the Bible as an "important document that everyone should read." He said that he knows he's going to heaven and hopes that everyone else in the family has their hearts right with God so that we can all be there. That's amazing! I can't even begin to describe what a difference that means!
I was waiting for the phone call at any time since his lungs were gradually filling with fluid since he lost the ability to swallow or cough or even clear his throat. I guess last night things took a turn and all his children flew into town from NY and elsewhere to see him one last time. My last goodbye was this weekend, but really, I'll remember the visit before that when Chris and I visited, and he was awake long enough to sing with us for a little while, remembering all the words to these classic songs like his alma mater MIT's school song. Then gave us his signature fierce hug and handshake. I miss you already...
Comments (17)
What a difficult time for you and your entire family. I'm so honored to have spent time with your Granddad, he was clearly an intelligent man - certainly ahead of his time in many ways as was demonstrated by the enormous contribution he made to his field. I pray that you are comforted as you mourn, and wishing with all my heart that I could be there. I'm here for you and love you.
hey man, my wife and i will keep you in our prayers,
My condolences. May the memories you hold in your heart comfort you.
Poor Nick. I know you were braced for this, but that doesn't make it easy.
Thinkin bout ya!
Gary&Kristy
*hugs* i'm sorry for you
so sorry to hear this.
we'll be praying for your family....
so sorry to hear this Nick...
Prayers to your family. Although you'll miss him, you know he's happier where he is now.
ryc~ promises, promises
You have no idea who I am, but I am sorry for your loss, and I know how it must hurt. my prayers are with you.
Nick--so sorry for the loss of your granddad. its obvious you'll be with him again....
Sending prayers...
Oh Nick, Jennifer and I are sorrowful for you and your family's loss. You were here for Esther last year and I wish she was there you for you this year.
sorry for your loss. Thanks for your comment, I really appreciate it.
My royal condolences as well. I'm very sorry to hear about your loss.