Month: May 2005

  • Real-Life Case Study

    As an employer, I’m faced with a curious predicament, and I welcome your input on this. The names are changed…

    Rodney starts working for us with a strong background in his field,
    making a wage equal to industry standards given his abilities. After
    the first 4 days, Rodney disappears – things appeared to be going well,
    his supervisor’s last words were “see you tomorrow” and Rodney
    responded back in kind. The next week, Rodney comes back to work
    looking down trodden, sharing some bad news.

    His son was diagnosed that weekend with sickle-cell anemia and had
    slipped into a coma because the diagnosis was a little late in coming.
    Fortunately, things came around, and he was responding well to
    treatment, but Rodney was so worked up by the whole situation that he
    never thought to call in sick. Things went well the next two weeks with
    Rodney showing up every day without any major problems.

    While not showing to be a stellar employee, it seemed he would pass his
    90 day probationary period without any red flags. Until he stopped
    showing up again. And didn’t call again. Finally, he called the
    operations manager and explained that after the diagnosis of his son,
    both Rodney and his wife had blood tests run to see who was the carrier
    of the genetic disorder. When the tests results came back negative for
    both, Rodney was again beside himself. Having been there for the birth
    of “his” son, he knew his wife was the mother, but the father with the
    gene for sickle cell was not Rodney.

    Rodney came in for his paycheck and returned his uniforms, but he asked
    if he could get his job back. Yes? Tell him he has two strikes down and
    only one to go? Renew the 90 day probationary period? I’m unsettled on
    this. I heard him come in for his paycheck and talk with the operations
    manager, but I couldn’t bring myself to go over to the room and say
    hello because I feel jerked around already and don’t want to leave
    ourselves open to another hit.

    At the same time, he is going through some extraordinarily difficult
    circumstances, assuming all that he has told us is true. Thoughts?

  • A couple nuggets from my trip to Naperville, IL where Dave Short gave a workshop on small groups in Chi Alpha…


    Jesus’s idea of training was a
    form of cell ministry.
    Sure there were thousands of disciples, but it
    all started with a group of twelve. He further showed just how portable
    it is by going all over the country with it!

    This acronym applies:

    Instruction: Jesus verbally taught his “mentees”

    Demonstration: Jesus modeled his life

    Experience: real-life experience

    Assessment: debrief and evaluate





    Some quotes!



    Conflict leads to intimacy.  -Gary Smalley



    Today people are looking for a community to belong to before a message to believe in.  -Rick Richardson, Evangelism Outside the Box, p. 99.



    Belonging comes before believing.  -John Wesley (he made people join a cell group before they joined the church)



    You can impress people from a distance, but you can only impact them up close.  -I’m assuming this was Dave Short



    The church is the only society in the world that exists for its non-members.  -William Temple

    At least it should!

  • Oh, I had something exciting to start this entry out with, but I forgot.

    I’ll try to jog my train of thought. Starting a retirement plan
    today… yes, but not exciting. Spraying weeds today! Yes, but more
    exciting than that. Oh yes….

    Last night I had a fun night out with Rachel and Ryan. I was thinking of bsirvio cuz we went to Pizzeria Uno (the last time I went, Brent and I were there after the Brewer game, and I wore my rubbers from work ). Then on to a hole-in-the-wall bar with free pool in West Allis.

    Rachel mentioned this, and I keep thinking about it. I could keep people laughing for hours at my expense
    with stories of past mistakes, boffos, and general mayhem with which
    I’ve found myself associated. Sticking to just the legal stuff that’s
    happened in my life, much less what’s happened behind the wheel!

    So where I’m going with all of this…. I remember leaving high school
    (2 weeks shy of 5 years ago) thinking to myself that I didn’t have
    anything exciting to tell grandkids some day! My dad, for example, ran away from kindergarten. Twice! How hilarious is that? Did Nick ever skip out on class? Do anything remotely exciting? Never!

    Post-high school has turned out to be the most exciting part of my life
    ever! Starting things on fire…. passing fire trucks with their lights
    on… sleeping in trees…. playing “no cop, no stop”… traveling
    across continents and selling beer in Germany… Everything! So here’s to life.

  • The kitchen remodeling is almost done!

  • More pictures! I took a walk around the yard today…

    Crabapple (Malus)

    Serviceberry (Amelanchier)

    Vinca (Vinca)